So, you’re engaged (cue the champagne pop!) and now comes the big question everyone is asking: “When’s the wedding?”
Picking a wedding date sounds simple, but let’s be real, it’s one of the biggest decisions in the whole planning process. Your date affects everything: your venue, vendors, budget, and even your overall vibe. So, how do you choose the perfect wedding date without stressing out?
Here are my top tips as someone who’s seen hundreds of weddings and knows what works (and what can make things messy).
1. Think About Your Dream Vibe
Do you want a summer beach wedding, an autumn vineyard backdrop, or a cozy winter wonderland? Your season will shape everything: flowers, outfits, and even the mood of your photos.
Peak wedding months in Australia? March, April, and October, absolute winners for gorgeous light and mild weather. But don’t sleep on winter weddings, they can be magical and often come with big discounts.
2. Lock in Your Non-Negotiables First
Got a photographer, videographer, or venue you absolutely have your heart set on? Check their availability before locking in a date. I’ve seen couples fall in love with a specific date only to find their dream vendors are booked out years in advance. Prioritise what matters most, vendors or the exact date.
3. Budget Smarter by Playing With Dates
Want to save thousands? Consider a weekday or winter wedding. Saturdays in peak season are like gold dust, they book out fast and cost more. But Fridays and Sundays? Total game-changers. Same great vendors, often at a better rate.
4. Think About Guests (But Don’t Stress Too Hard)
If you’ve got family or friends flying in, choose a season that makes travel easy. Avoid major holidays unless you want to play airfare roulette. And remember, people who love you will make it work. Your date is about you first and foremost.
5. Go With Your Gut
At the end of the day, your wedding date should feel right for you. Forget superstition about lucky numbers or what month Aunt Karen thinks is best. If it feels special, lock it in, book your vendors, and celebrate.
Best Wedding Dates in Australia (Pro Tips)
Want the insider scoop? Here are some trends I see in Adelaide and across Australia:
- March–April & October–November: Most popular months, perfect weather for outdoor weddings.
- May & August: Budget-friendly, venues have more availability.
- Fridays & Sundays: Big savings without compromising your dream team.
Final Tip from a Photographer
Don’t overthink it. Your wedding will be incredible no matter what date you choose. And if you need someone to capture those epic moments?
Hi, I’m Jake, a wedding photographer and videographer, and I live for this stuff.
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