Writing your own vows sounds romantic until you sit down and… nothing. Here’s how to write vows that feel personal, not cringey.
1. Start Early
Don’t wait until the night before. Give yourself time to think.
2. Keep It Personal
Share stories, inside jokes, and what you love most about your partner. Skip the clichés.
3. Speak From the Heart
You don’t need to be a poet. Simple and real beats forced and fancy.
4. Keep It Short
Aim for about one to two minutes. Long vows lose impact.
5. Practice
Read them out loud. Make sure they flow and feel natural.
Pro Tip: Bring a backup copy for your officiant, just in case nerves get the better of you.
