Your wedding ceremony should feel like you, not just something plucked out of a Pinterest board. Here are five ways to make your “I do” genuinely yours, and memorable for your guests.
1. Write Your Own Vows
Nothing hits the heart harder than words that are completely yours. Whether you’re a romantic poet or prefer a touch of humour, personal vows make your ceremony unique.
- Keep them short enough so guests don’t start shifting in their seats.
- Practise reading them aloud so you’re confident on the day.
💡 Need inspiration? Check out our blog on how to write vows that actually sound like you.
2. Include a Cultural or Family Tradition
Whether it’s a handfasting, breaking glass, or even a special blessing, incorporating a tradition gives depth and meaning to your day. And don’t be afraid to blend cultures, weddings are about joining two lives, after all.
3. Choose a Celebrant Who Gets You
Your celebrant sets the tone. Go for someone who understands your humour, style, and story. Have a coffee (or wine) with them before booking to make sure it’s the right fit.
🎯 Pro tip: Book early. Like your photographer, the good celebrants can book out more than a year in advance.
4. Create a Custom Aisle Song
Instead of the same bridal march everyone has heard, pick a song that reflects your journey. It could be a live acoustic version of “your song” or even something upbeat that gets everyone smiling.
5. Add a Special Surprise
This could be releasing biodegradable confetti after the kiss, having a close friend read a meaningful poem, or even inviting a loved one to officiate part of the ceremony. Little surprises keep the energy high and make your guests feel part of the moment.
Final Word
Your wedding ceremony is the heart of your day. Personal touches make it more than a formality, they turn it into a story your guests will remember and you’ll want to relive again and again.
If you’re still on the hunt for a stunning ceremony backdrop, venues like Kingsford The Barossa offer rustic elegance, while Sunnybrae Estate delivers lush gardens perfect for an outdoor “I do”. Or, if you’re thinking coastal, Port Willunga Beach is a showstopper for a barefoot ceremony.
