Should you do a first look or stick with the traditional aisle reveal? Couples ask me this all the time, and the answer depends on your priorities. Here’s what to consider.
The Case for a First Look
- More Time Together: A first look lets you see each other before the ceremony. It’s private and emotional without 100 eyes on you.
- Better Photos: You can knock out most portraits before the ceremony, so you spend more time at your reception.
- Less Stress: You’re calmer walking down the aisle because you’ve already seen your person.
The Case for Aisle Reveal
- Tradition: There’s something magical about seeing each other for the first time at the altar.
- Pure Emotion: That moment when the music hits and you lock eyes, unmatched.
- Religious or Cultural Reasons: Some traditions strongly prefer aisle reveals.
So, Which Should You Choose?
If photography time matters and you want a calm, private moment, do a first look. If tradition is important to you and you want the big aisle moment, skip it.
Pro Tip: Either way works! Talk to your photographer, they’ll help you create a timeline that fits.
