You’ve been planning for months, maybe even years, but there are still a few sneaky slip-ups that can throw a spanner in the works on your big day. Here are the top seven wedding day mistakes I see all the time, and how to avoid them.
1. Not Having a Wet Weather Plan
In Australia, our weather can turn from sunny to sideways rain faster than you can say “bouquet toss”. Always have a backup plan for outdoor ceremonies.
- Consider venues with both indoor and outdoor options like Howard Vineyard or The Lane Vineyard.
- Invest in some clear umbrellas. They’re cute and camera-friendly.
2. Skipping the Rehearsal
A rehearsal isn’t just for people who forget left from right. It’s your chance to work out who walks where, how fast, and whether Uncle Bob knows he’s actually doing a reading.
- If your celebrant offers a run-through at your ceremony site, take it.
3. Forgetting to Eat
Between nerves and excitement, food often takes a back seat, and no one wants a fainting bride or groom.
- Ask your caterer or coordinator to set aside a plate of canapés for you during photos.
- Or pre-arrange a grazing board with a local provider like LunchBunch.
4. Not Building in Buffer Time
Timelines look neat on paper, but real life throws curveballs. Add at least 10 minutes to each part of your day so you’re never rushing.
- If you haven’t read it yet, see our blog on how to create a wedding timeline without losing your mind.
5. Micromanaging Vendors on the Day
You’ve hired professionals for a reason. Let them do their thing.
- Whether it’s your florist, photographer, or DJ, trust them to deliver.
- For stunning blooms without the stress, check out Fleur Social in SA or Poppies for Grace for styling extras.
6. Underestimating Travel Time
Whether it’s from the ceremony to the reception, or to a photo location, traffic and logistics can eat into your day.
- Use Google Maps to check real-time travel times on a similar day and time of week.
7. Forgetting to Take It All In
The day goes by in a flash. Schedule a few minutes alone with your partner to soak it all in, no cameras, no guests, just the two of you.
Final Word
The magic of your wedding day isn’t in perfection, it’s in the little moments. Avoiding these common mistakes will help you stay present, relaxed, and ready to enjoy every second.
If you want more planning tips, our Wedding Planning Hub is full of practical guides and real-world advice from someone who’s seen it all behind the lens.
