Your wedding day is one of the most exciting and emotional moments of your life. Between the morning nerves, last-minute details, and celebrating with your favourite people, it’s easy to let a few things slip through the cracks.
As wedding photographers and videographers at JakeyVass Media, we’ve been behind the scenes of countless weddings, capturing everything from the morning prep to the final champagne spray on the dance floor. And after seeing it all, we’ve noticed that couples often forget a few key things that can make a big difference in how smooth (and stress-free) the day feels.
Here are 10 things couples often forget on their wedding day , plus how to avoid them.
1. Don’t Forget to Eat
With hair, makeup, photos, and nerves all happening at once, eating sometimes gets skipped. But having a proper breakfast or easy snacks on hand will keep your energy up. Nobody wants to feel faint walking down the aisle.
💡 Pro Tip: We always recommend couples factor in time for food before photos start. Hungry couples = cranky photos.
2. Build a Buffer Into Your Timeline
Wedding days rarely run exactly on schedule. Something will go over, it’s normal. By adding 10 to 15 minute buffers between events, you’ll save yourself stress.
At JakeyVass Media, we work closely with couples and coordinators to make sure photography and videography fit seamlessly into your run sheet, without feeling rushed.
3. Pack a “Just in Case” Kit
Safety pins, tissues, bandaids, deodorant, fashion tape, painkillers, trust us, you’ll need at least one of these.
We’ve seen bridal parties breathe a sigh of relief when that little kit saves the day mid-shoot.
4. Stay Hydrated
Between champagne toasts and dancing, it’s easy to forget water. But hydration makes all the difference in how you look and feel. No one wants a dehydration headache on their wedding night.
5. Think About Lighting
This is one of the biggest things couples forget that directly affects photos and video. Getting ready in a dark hotel room or having an evening ceremony with no lighting plan can impact your images.
At JakeyVass Media, we help guide couples on the best light for dreamy photos and cinematic film. A bright prep room, golden hour portraits, or even fairy lights at the reception can transform your visuals.
6. Delegate, Don’t DIY
You shouldn’t be chasing suppliers, moving chairs, or reminding Uncle Bob to stay for photos. Give those jobs to your bridal party or trusted friends.
That way, you can stay present, and we can capture the genuine emotions rather than stressed expressions.
7. Schedule Alone Time
It’s easy to get swept up in guests and formalities, but carving out even 10 minutes with just your partner makes the day more memorable.
We often step back after a shoot to let couples soak in the moment. These quiet moments usually end up being some of the most beautiful photos.
8. Back Up Your Vows and Speeches
Nerves and emotions are high, and paper notes can easily get lost. Print extra copies or keep digital backups.
We always record vows and speeches on video, so even if something goes missing, you’ll have them preserved forever.
9. Bring Comfortable Shoes
Yes, the heels look amazing for photos, but you’ll thank yourself later for packing flats or sneakers once the dance floor opens.
10. Take It All In
The day flies by faster than you can imagine. Stop, breathe, and look around. Notice the faces, the music, the love.
And don’t worry about remembering every detail, that’s what we’re here for. At JakeyVass Media, we make sure the candid laughs, the emotional tears, and even the “did that really just happen?!” moments are captured forever.
Final Thoughts
Your wedding doesn’t need to be perfect. It needs to feel like you. The little hiccups often become the stories you’ll laugh about for years. But by remembering these 10 things, you’ll set yourself up for a smoother, more relaxed day.
And if you want a team who not only captures the memories but also helps guide you through the chaos, that’s exactly what we do at JakeyVass Media. From natural photography to cinematic wedding films, we’re here to make sure your story is told in the most authentic way.
👉 Get in touch with JakeyVass Media to lock in your wedding photography and videography today.
